Find your match

Ways to discover and match, sending messages, adjusting preferences, and more.

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Why am I seeing profiles from other dating apps?

How do I contact another member?

How Does Matching Work?

How do I get matched with other members?

How do I save profiles I'm interested in?

How does 'Liked You' tab work?

How do I send and reply to messages?

Intro Messages – common questions

How to Send an Intro Message

How to view Intro Messages

How to delete a message or chat?

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