How can I contact another member?

There are several great ways to connect with another member on our platform. Here's how each option works.

Send a Like

You can send one Like per match to show your interest. Your match will be notified and can return the gesture. When the Like is mutual, messaging between you both becomes available.

Send an Intro Message

This option lets you add a short note to your Like, which the other member can read before deciding whether to Like you back — a nice way to make your first impression stand out.

Send a Message

This is a great way to introduce yourself! You can message at any time directly through the Chat tab. For a stronger start, try mentioning something from their profile that caught your eye — it's an easy way to spark a meaningful conversation.

Keeping track of your chats

All your conversations live in the Chat tab, so you can pick up where you left off anytime. And don't be shy — our members are always happy to hear from you!